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It’s been nice to see ordinary Americans open up to life in China but everyone is acting blind to their censorship. Makes me thankful for the fediverse and being able to self host my own instance.

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[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 week ago (23 children)

This is it. Self hosting, federation, not for profit is the way. We need an internet that is made by just regular people for no better reason than it's fun. Not just social media either. We need an entire open internet, free and clear of all ulterior motives (or more likely still having bad actors mixed in, but at least they're not pulling any strings at the upper levels).

I don't know how possible that is, but I know we need it.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (22 children)

Fully agree! Thanks for putting my thought into much better words.

The only issue I see now is how to surpass bad mods and admins? The balance between filtering off topic or bad content versus anything goes but then nazis come out seems to be a challenge plus power tripping.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (20 children)

I just don't understand why it's a problem that the nazis come out. Would we not rather they utter their opinions in the open so they can be refuted? That way people can also just ignore that user if they don't like viewing what he has to say.

It's not like they don't exist just because we ban them here.. They'll go somewhere to discuss where only other people who agree with them is allowed to be.

Unless we're talking direct threats or doxing I'm always an advocate for free speech online.

[–] minibyte 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Nazi punks, fuck off.

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