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Interesting. As we need immigrants we should listen to people complaining.
The big points I see: 1. Unfriendlyness with government agencies: I can second this. She mentioned living in Otterberg. I know that place, it is close to the Ramstein US military base, roughly 40k Americans live under an hour away. I know other immigrants who have also had bad experiences.
But à lot of her points are plain ridiculousl.
And this is ridiculous. There are big box stores. 15 minutes away is Globus. This shop used to be a real, Walmarts try to start in Germany. This is big enough to find all you need. And in the street it is located you find every other store just as in US stroad utopia.
And boxes don't take a week to arrive. Bullshit.
Honestly, she sounds like a stereotypical American.
I was in Germany last September for a few days (yes, not the same). We had a great time with everyone. We even had train ride out to the country...still no problem.
Although I see your comment having value in this discussion, the sample you’re from in the world and the sample you interact with in Germany have a massive effect on your experience.
I'd say that just like there are people that just aren't suitable for certain jobs, there are mentalities that aren't suitable for living in certain places. In this particular case, she obviously tried to live a lifestyle that could work maybe in Berlin, but probably not anywhere else in Germany.
Her mentality regarding the language probably also works better in South Korea and Japan. These countries find it very hard to learn English, so they are more wishfull. Germans on the other hand needs to be a bit more insisting regarding language or they would create all sorts of issues.
No critique, but she made the right call to move somewhere else.