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Oh fair enough. I didn't realise all of that. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for understanding. Drag doesn't demand other people use drag's preferred pronouns, and drag guesses that must be pretty unusual for a trans person. Human brains are pattern matching prediction machines. Everyone knows misgendering is wrong, so people's brains match the pattern and assume that must be the issue drag is talking about. It's a matter of using too much brain and not enough eyeball.