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[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago

The democratic party is a completely different discussion. Dems didn't lose because they're too nice to play dirty, they lost because they couldn't even pretend to give a shit about regular folk and the problems that face them. They have no morals or convictions and are perfectly happy letting the republicans win if the alternative means fighting against corporate interests.

We need to treat conservatives the same way we treat dumb children. We use a firm hand, we dominate them with simple, strong language they understand

This is attitude is basically what I'm talking about. You will not convince people by patronizing them, or treating them like children. You have to treat them with respect, actually listen to their problems, and try to explain how leftist policies can solve those problems, while someone like Trump (or even Harris) cannot.

Many right leaning voters view liberals and leftists as academic elitists who have no concept of what their lives are like, and in many ways they are right. Treating them like children will just reinforce that belief and push them further to the right.

Not everyone can be convinced, but if we want to stop this horrific slide towards fascism we need to get serious about educating the masses on leftist beliefs and deprogram all the fascist neo-liberal propaganda they've been fed all their lives.

Not too long ago I was a neo-liberal, and I sure as hell didn't change my perspective by reading patronizing comments online. I happened to start watching a black youtube creator (FD signifier) who explains concepts like white supremacy, the patriarchy, and capitalism without being hostile or patronizing to viewers who disagree with him. He gave me a way out of that line of thinking that minimized my feelings of shame from having been so ignorant.

I'm not going to pretend to know what the average person should do to combat misinformation but I can tell you with certainty that treating people who disagree with you like children, or patronizing them in any way is simply not an effective at changing their minds.

By all means make fun of trump, fascists, etc, but if you're not prepared to calmly explain why these people are bad, people will just think you're saying it because you want "your team" to win.

Sorry for the long essay.