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I am sorry maybe it matches and maybe it doesn't let me know what you think about what I'll tell you. We're both a minority in the fact we are lesbians but also asexual ! I think we were happy to discover we expected the same thing in a relationship and our talk was interesting, we talked a lot about common interests and talked for hours, even planning to get coffee at her place someday. Do you think in this scenario living the asexual part of her life made her scared?
Have you tried asking her? Is she still up for some communication?
There may be a myriad of reasons why such connections get lost (there may even be very simple technical problems, losing the login or the only device used for that app, who knows). I stated one possible reason that will not apply to a lot of other people. Maybe it wasn't the asexuality and more of another aspect? In the end only she knows.
She actually told me she didn't saw my texts this morning! I am still in ladies (and bi dudes!)
I wish you all the best! Have fun on your date :)
Thank you you're so kind!