this post was submitted on 09 Nov 2024
339 points (96.7% liked)

LGBTQ+

2722 readers
54 users here now

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] [email protected] 55 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I'm going to stick around and fight like hell

[–] blockheadjt 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

What does fighting like hell consist of?

[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Honestly, just existing is a part of the fight. If people know a queer person personally and see that they're human too just like them then they're a lot less likely to dehumanize them and are more likely to help protect and fight for them. It's easy to dehumanize and be cruel to a group that you've never interacted with. But if it's your neighbor, friend, or colleague then it's no longer just some abstract concept.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I love and live by this quote at the end of Paris is Burning. by Dorian Corey, one of the founding Mothers of ballroom.

It's a 1 min clip worth hearing her say it, but for those who can't watch:

Everybody wants to make an impression, some mark upon the world. And then you think, you left a mark on the world if you just get through it and a few people remember your name. You don't have to bend the whole world. I think it's better just to enjoy it. Pay your dues, and just enjoy it. If you shoot an arrow and it goes real high, hooray for you.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 weeks ago

That's cool. Most Americans won't though.