this post was submitted on 10 Oct 2024
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I'm aware that I'm worthless but still can't turn off that libido or sexual desire and is killing me. Another thing to add to the list of failures as an male adult.

No job, own place, car, friends, virgin. Why am I even alive?

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[–] Aurenkin 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'm really sorry that you're having these feelings, nobody deserves them but unfortunately that doesn't stop them from happening. Obviously every situation is different but for me personally it took me over 30 before I started to change. Could have been a lot faster if I recognised some things sooner but that can't be helped now. The hardest part is that the change has to come from you and it's going to be hard but it's worth it and things absolutely can change.