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Relevant Lemmy communities:

Neurodivergent Life Hacks

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Off My Chest: I just had a very long talk with my father (self.adhd)

submitted 2 months ago by Reverendender to c/[email protected]

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That ended with me finally explaining to him how the way he and my mother treated me as a child, with undiagnosed (and really not even conceptually understood at the time) ADHD caused me lasting trauma that persists to this day. I’m a 45 year old man, and I cried.

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[–] xmunk 46 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Hey brother, it fucking sucks and I can only imagine how teachers and folks around you responded to you out of ignorance when, with understanding, there are excellent ways to mitigate and control your expression and thought process in a healthy manner.

I'm glad you figured yourself out and I hope things get smoother from here on out. Much love from a fellow neurodivergent - if you need to vent or talk things through we're always here and listening.

[–] Reverendender 13 points 2 months ago