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[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 month ago

Social media didn't exist when I was a child. I'm thankful for that because my experiences now help me quickly recognize narcissistic DARVO.

  1. Deny

  2. Attack

  3. Reversal of Victim and Offender

It often happens in a means most succinctly expressed by The Narcissists Prayer.

That didn't happen.

And if it did, it wasn't that bad.

And if it was, that's not a big deal.

And if it is, that's not my fault.

And if it was, I didn't mean it.

And if I did, you deserved it.

A wide scope of situations can flow from the general to a fairly specific outcome: A child lacks the means to communicate righteous injustice and has a "meltdown". The parent films it, then posts it to social media with something like, "Look what I have to put up with (laughing to tears emoji)".