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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm so sorry.

After my FiL died a few weeks later I just burst out crying one time cos I knew the horrible domestic abuse he had been enduring was over. ( yes, we intervened but he didn't even think he was abused ) I think it's normal and good to want suffering to be over. Of course, we rather the suffering never happened at all but we can't stop everything.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

All too true. And I wish it wasn't, but it is, and that horrible feeling of powerlessness ...