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Discuss any manner of relationship. Friends, roommates, dating, marriage, spouses, kids, etc.

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I have a really bad habit of getting into relationships with people ,who are nice at first then just stop caring . I listen to peoples feelings and am a very honest and open person . I know when to stop speaking and for some reason I don't know why I could work and also cook the next days meals the night before on my workdays and clean the mess I made while still cleaning my partners mess when I get home and it would never be enough . on my days off I dont have a pleasing people issue I just like lots of tasks it makes me happy and I still always have time for myself and my partner of course. I give my partner space and listen to their feelings as well as just being there for them . What am I doing wrong? I always just say if you need something or want something to be different just tell me and I can make it work if my partner says they want tondo something like helo cook or work or anything else I'm cool with it . I'm an easy to please respectful person I hold doors and have manners. I don't know I guess I just want some advice on what I should do after I heal from my breakup? I just am gonna take some time to myself and reflect and do some self improvement . Thanks,

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How do you know when it's just a rough patch vs time to end a romantic relationship? I know it's quite personal and varies by relationship, so I'm more interested in folks' experiences than in a general rule or standard. (Although if you do have a rule of thumb to share, would love to hear it too.)

Note: I'm not speaking of abusive situations, but of relationships with ordinary troubles.

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/394982

I've noticed variations of 'calm down' don't work.

Lots of ppl in arguments in the hood

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me 2 mark, me2

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Even though you realistically didn't do anything bad.

Relationship being like acquintanceship or attempting to get along with a coworkers who's reasonably not crazy most of the time

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/349695

Me - when I'm lonely.

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/334209

Assuming both or at least one of of them has a correspond sexuality/gender/etc that works with the other

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This is why getting blocked is seen as an achievement (of sorts): Problem solves itself.

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Like say per month.

For me specifically, no family.

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prob

People talk a lot about 500 days of summer and thats definitely useful too. Swingers is good for break ups. Eternal sunshine didn't seem useful.

Any similar movies?