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She literally called me at the time of the appointment to tell me she can't see me. She was so apologetic, but was like "I absolutely can treat you, but I'm not allowed by your insurance". Fuck this country.

Update: I went to urgent care. Before leaving home, I called to be sure they would accept my insurance (Aetna). They said yes.. After arriving for my appointment, they told me they do not accept my insurance. I will simply leave without paying.

Final Update: I can understand that that differences in physical biology demand different attention. That's not what I'm complaining about. It's the way it's set up. I was told that at my appointment. Why not just refer me to a specialist? The website could've even just referred me to urgent care (yes, my insurance requires a primary care physician's referral for urgent care, according to the urgent care facility). But, no, their goal is to obfuscate and irritate until the patient gives you and pays out-of-pocket.

I was able to receive care at a cost I could not afford. I won't discuss what I had to do to "find" the money to pay for care and prescriptions. That being said, the condition I was diagnosed with was more serious than a simple infection, and I'm glad that I saw a doctor. I need further treatment and just hope I can get insurance to cover any of it.

If you're an American reading this, please consider ways to get involved in organizing in support of Medicare For All in your community. Here is one resource I have found. We don't need to live like this. We deserve better. Stay safe and healthy, friends.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I'm not USian but I'd be astonished if that was legal, even in the barbaric hellhole that is the US healthcare system.

Ask her to put it in writing and then challenge the insurance company.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

This is so ridiculous! Our system is beyond broken. If you're sick you almost have to scrape by before Medicaid limit or pay out the ass and have excellent job with very good insurance. It's so fucked up. This is truly nutty.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Are the people in the comments bots or real people? It's too good to be true that so many people have switched to Lemmy!!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Aww man you poor sods. In any other civilised country that wouldn't be so much of a worry. 😭

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I’m not going to defend health insurance companies, but this is not because of your insurance. CVS will only see patients with simple medical problems because they 1) are not equipped for more in-depth diagnosis and treatment and 2) don’t want the liability associated with such. UTIs in males are medically complicated, by definition which has a very specific meaning. Males don’t just get UTIs like females do, because the male urethra is significantly longer, providing significantly more protection from bacterial retrogression to the bladder. The long story short is that if you are a male with a UTI you need to go to an actual healthcare facility and see a qualified professional, not an NP/PA at your local CVS.

Source: am a pharmacist

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

The issue here is the clown medical delivery system that enables these scenarios. At this point, people have better chances of diagnosis and treating themselves than rely on a chain of clowns, if only medical devices and pharmaceuticals were easily available.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Riiigghhttt! I can understand that that differences in physical biology demand different attention. That's not what I'm complaining about. It's the way it's set up. I was told that at my appointment. Why not just refer me to a specialist? The website could've even just referred me to urgent care. But, no, their goal is to obfuscate and irritate until the patient gives you and pays out-of-pocket.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

This country is f****** crazy. I remember like 8 years ago I was trying to get into rehab to kick opiates which I eventually did in 2015. When I got into a free bed for a detox, they wouldn't let me in because it said my insurance wasn't accepted. The irony was I didn't have insurance anymore, they still had me listed as being insured with some s***** Blue Cross program at my old job.

I actually had to get proof that I wasn't insured so the state would cover my bed.

Any other OECD Nation pretty much and you get treated like anyone else. And the sick part is both political parties are okay with this, and militantly fight any serious ever for a public health care system with one single risk pool where everybody is automatically opted in.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I think most everyone knows this would have to be in the USA.

Sorry OP, I really hope those greedy assholes just made some shitty mistake.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

It's a good thing we have private insurance in the US. You have the freedom of choice! (/s)

Can you visit a general practitioner for treatment? It'll take a lot longer... but I would imagine they can give a prescription - even if it's not covered.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Since nobody addressed this, if you (anyone reading this) have a bladder infection, go to the women's section of any pharmacy. Usually somewhere near pads/tampons, and find a box of this blessed relief. It has cleared up all but the most stubborn infections I've had.

Azo

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

just FYI to anyone reading this, this stuff is indeed magic pain relief, BUT it's not an antibiotic and you still need to see a doctor. UTI's can spread and it doesn't feel very good. I would up in the ER getting IV antibiotics over Thanksgiving one year. it sucked.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Hey OP! I’m sorry you’re going through this and I’m in no way excusing the healthcare system in this country, i hate it more than anyone else, but what I believe is happening is that your insurance isn’t covering CVS, not the treatment and appointment itself.

If you call your insurance, they should give you a list of urgent cares and walk-ins that’ll be within your network. You may also just be able to google (insurance) in network walk-in clinics and see what’s available.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Have you opened a complaint with your state's insurance commission?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Land of the free

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