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I can think of two:

  1. Speaking multiple languages, and
  2. Perfect pitch

Both are more easily learned at a young age. Are there others?

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)
  • Playing a musical instrument:

    Easier to learn when young and improves brain elasticity.

  • Cooking:

    Encourages healthier eating habits, decreases frequency on costly meals out, and makes learning to cook new things less intimidating.

  • Fixing things / building things:

    Once you start taking things apart or putting them together (doesn't really matter what) it increases the confidence of being able to do your own repairs / maintenance instead of paying others to do it.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nitpicking: I’d rephrase “playing an instrument” to “playing a first instrument”. I struggled as heck to learn the guitar as a young adult, while kids in my music class were having a much easier time; but once I got it after a while, all instruments I learned after that, even in my 40s, were a ton easier.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Interesting, thanks for sharing!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Add to that, learning a language.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Swimming is much easier when learning at a young age.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Thinking like a scientist. Critical and evidence -based thinking and action can be unintuitive at times - but it's the most realistic way to perceive reality. It needs practice, but is tremendously helpful. And the world also really needs it.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Social skills in general. If you don’t learn to trust and form relationships with people and resolve conflict early on, you struggle your entire life to emulate it poorly.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

You’re absolutely right.

[–] idkwhatimdoing 8 points 1 year ago

Problem-solving real problems and self-advocacy. Makes the real world 100 times less intimidating when something goes wrong, like it will pretty much every day.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Language, other than one's native tongue.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Great one. Very difficult to speak a language without an accent unless you learned it young.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Social skills.

Its a lot harder to fix poor social skills as an adult than it is when youre a kid.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Absolutely this.

Too few role models on how to act like a well-adjusted and reasonable person. When the smallest social misconduct happens today it's like people want to either explode into a fit of rage or implode into this crying mess.

Getting a good eye on priority comes from socializing out in the world and or volunteering your time and energy for something that doesn't pay you money but helps someone in need. It can teach so much at such a young age because you're surrounded by some of the best and worst people you'll ever meet.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Times tables/multiplication tables. I learnt them when I was really young - I had pneumonia as a child and I would have my back massaged for a short while..during this, I would read thetimes tables.. being able to do any multiplication like speech has been invaluable. Raising my own kids and working with them to learn them.. with one knowing them well and two not so well and unwilling to learn them have now come into high school and working with fractions etc it is having a toll.. times tables

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Playing an instrument. It's rare for anyone who didn't learn young to be great.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

You can't learn perfect pitch, but you can perfect relative pitch

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Refusing candy from strangers

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Juggling is pretty cool, and I hear it's like riding a bike, you never forget.

But I never could, so I don't know

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Riding a bicycle and/or skating. Helps enhance balance skills.

Strangely I learned to ride a bike at age 4 and a unicycle at age 17, but for some reason I can't skate to save my life 😂

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I find 2x2 skates very difficult to balance in. in-line skates are actually easier.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Oh great point. I’d add skiing to that category.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I picked up skateboarding at 20. Surprisingly easy if you spend a little time falling over

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly the wheels were too loud and distracting for me. I got into BMX flatland, much quieter sport when practiced alone, I could focus..

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

oh I use a longboard with big fat wheels. Quiet. Mountain biking is even quieter and you get away from the city

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Teamwork, basic survival skills and knowledge of nature. (I was in boyscouts)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Learning to drive. I've met a few people who didn't learn to drive until their late 20's or 30's and there always seems to be some awkwardness to their driving. On the opposite side, learning to drive at 16 seems to encourage reckless habits to form, people I've known who waited until 18 have much better driving habits on average.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Skills requiring a lot of flexibility like ballet or gymnastics.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] mnemonicmonkeys 1 points 1 year ago

I disagree. Your stride will change dramatically as you go through puberty and grow, hence why teenagers are often clumsy

[–] darcy 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] darcy 0 points 1 year ago

it is not real? people just be lying

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