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Hi, everyone. My mother is a Danish citizen living in Denmark. She just reached out to me and told me that she was sexually assaulted by her massage therapist today. He groped her breasts (including her nipples) and butt repeatedly while breathing in her ear and telling her how beautiful she is. She froze, because she was terrified in this situation, and now isn't sure what to do. I'm in America and am unfamiliar with Danish laws. Can she report him to a kind of better business bureau or go to the police? What options do we have for making sure this doesn't happen to anyone else? Thank you so much for any insight you can provide!


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The original was posted on /r/denmark by /u/OvalOvaries at 2024-02-06 17:34:50+00:00.

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BeardedBrotherAK at 2024-02-06 23:01:16+00:00 ID: kp99tv3


Sexual assault is a criminal and punishable offence. She will never have to pay anything to pursue this via police, no matter if the case goes to court or not.

It's only in civil cases that you have to pay the bill yourself, if the perpetrator goes free at the end of it all, and this is clearly not a civil case.

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Barbie_wants_tea at 2024-02-07 09:55:21+00:00 ID: kpbn79w


As everyone else is saying, report to the police. But also maybe advice her to speak to a therapist or something because that can be a very traumatic experience for her! Wishing her well ❤️

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wistelflute at 2024-02-06 23:24:02+00:00 ID: kp9ufpu


Update us and if nothing happens because of the wonderful danish laws and amazing police, write us the name of the pig and the CVR of the business?

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Page_Odd at 2024-02-07 00:02:08+00:00 ID: kp9ztre


Report to police. They might not be able to do anything with no evidence, but if the creep has been reported before or get reported again, he could be arrested and shut down.  

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TeamoPortBou at 2024-02-07 02:14:02+00:00 ID: kpa07xv


Simply go to the police.

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Sapphic-Tea2008 at 2024-02-07 02:49:58+00:00 ID: kpa84kb


Police definitely. I am so sorry. that is fucked up

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VanGoghNotVanGo at 2024-02-07 02:52:33+00:00 ID: kpag3no


If she needs support and some clarity, it may be beneficial for her to call Offerrådgivningen, which is a free and anonymous resource available to anyone who has been the victim of a crime, each connected to her local police department.

Read more here:

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DearMeToo at 2024-02-07 11:10:30+00:00 ID: kpbt2vb


Link to police. It's in Danish but you can google translate:-). You can report him via email.

Please do as we don't want these creeps near any women.

Sorry about your mom. Does she have a support system here at all who can bystand her in this?

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interobangi at 2024-02-07 08:52:07+00:00 ID: kpb7q7v


Hi,

I am a Danish journalist that has been researching assault in combination with massage clinics for a while.

Would you be able to tell me more about the case in a private message? I have been in contact with several other women and would like to see if there is a common denominator.

Jonas

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Financial_Song_7324 at 2024-02-07 04:49:44+00:00 ID: kpb576e


Buy her tulips

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Kirnehzz at 2024-02-07 14:27:39+00:00 ID: kpc2pwc


Scary with a place like Massagecentret that is trying to be serious. Just read his descriptions on the site.

He charge like 500 DKK for 30 minutes. Unless he can finger you. Then he only charge 150 DKK. That is not serious

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Online-Politiet at 2024-02-07 09:23:11+00:00 ID: kpbdtpm


She should report it to the Police asap. She can call 114 or go to the police station.

Kind regards Politiets Online Patrulje(part of the Danish police)

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Dry-Classroom3163 at 2024-02-07 12:34:15+00:00 ID: kpbm3b1


Ironic.

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HeinoB83 at 2024-02-07 12:44:03+00:00 ID: kpc127t


Well the police. Why do you have to ask about that?

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Comprehensive_Bed945 at 2024-02-07 13:30:59+00:00 ID: kpc13d8


Find him and beat the living shit out of him (not joking) that is your own flesh and blood and your mother at that not only is he taking advantage of a terrified women he is not turning himself in pure evil feeling no remorse for the victim I’m being serious bro gather your mates and beat the fuck outa him or expose him online taking down everything he has fucking creep

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