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Ask Me Anything (AMA) Community Rules and Guidelines

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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

Disclaimer: like most pedophiles, I have never approached a child with anything sexual or otherwise inapporpriate, and I don't plan ever to do so. I recognize the harm in such actions, and I don't want to hurt the very people I love. If you expect AMA with a child molester, this ain't it.

The account is a throwaway, hope you'll understand this decision given the sensitivity of the topic.

Edit: Thank you for keeping civil and genuine in your questions. I did envision hostility, yet here you are, amazing as always. Lemmy is a wonderful place to be, thanks to you all!

Edit 2: Apparently we have another brave pedophile here in the comments, and he came with a good note I should include in the post: if you find yourself attracted to minors, that's okay. Acting on your desires is dangerous, but having them isn't. If you'd like to have some support and/or community that would help you get your bearings or just listen without any prejudice (we're all in the same boat), there are places that can help you. removed

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (4 children)

I'm so conflicted. But how would you want society to treat you? And by you, I mean people that haven't raped, molested or groomed a child, but are struggling with inappropriate feelings towards them?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

Just treat me like a normal person, not some monster and immediate danger to everyone below 18.

It would be reasonable to check my stance and I wouldn't mind if someone asked whether I need (and if I do, whether I already have) any help with it, but other than that, I want to be treated no differently whether someone knows I'm a pedophile or not.

I don't want to receive threats. I don't want to be stuck with people talking about how they would murder all pedophiles while having to keep my mouth shut. I want to maintain healthy relationship with my adult partners and friends. That's, essentially, what I ask of society.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Fair enough. I guess keep up the fight and I wish you the best. Thanks for giving us insight.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Thanks for being compassionate and understanding :)

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