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It's so much easier to comment on Lemmy because it isn't a toxic cesspool waiting to tear you apart (self.general)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by seal_of_approval to c/[email protected]

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It feels like people are a lot nicer here than on Twitter and Reddit, and even when people disagree, it's generally civil and not an all-out flame war. Also, there's no algorithm promoting outrage all the time.

For me, the anticipation of toxicity was a huge deterrent for me ever participating in real discussions, but here I feel like I can be myself.

I think it's healthier this way.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I quite litterally never posted or commented anything on Reddit, just couldn't stand being absolutely shitted on if I said something wrong.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I've commented plenty enough but did definitely decide often that it wasn't worth it. I do try to consider people's interpretations of things I say, but words still don't always come out as intended. Sometimes I'd hava a hit. Occasionally I'd be down voted somewhat heavily. Usually I'm stressing over what I say and it gets maybe 10 upvotes..

At this point I'll probably still do that contemplating before posting thing, because frankly, despite it not really impacting my life, it can still hurt to be down voted on a comment you carefully wrote and curated.