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[–] ElBarto 12 points 9 months ago (11 children)

I've been trying that maintain eye contact thing, how to they do that? Doesn't't the constant screaming in their heads hurt them?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (4 children)

As an allistic person, I don't get any screams in my head when I make eye contact and may not understand what you're referring to. Intense awkwardness?

Prolomged eye contacts may make some allistic people feel awkward, but generally it's a positive experience of nonverbal communication.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Are you saying making eye contact while talking makes you feel good?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

From another autistic person, it really varies from person to person. I despise staring intensely at strangers, but when it comes to my partner, I adore it. It probably has to do more with the level of trust than inherently not being able to look at someone in the eyes, but it might just be a me thing.

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