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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (15 children)

Had a first date with a really lovely girl this weekend.

We both had fun and she made sure to tell me so and spoke about catching up again in the future a few times.

I waited a day to ask if she wanted to hang out next weekend and she says that she’s super busy that weekend, sorry. No suggestion of when she might be free or anything.

Am I reading too much into it thinking maybe she’s not interested? I just took what she said at face value and went with it but part of me wonders if she’s just not interested but wants to be polite.

Any suggestions? I don’t want to come across as needy or anything like that.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If you really like her make the effort and don't give up.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Aww seagoon that's sweet of you. I do. I'd describe her as a keeper for sure.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

i'm really ancient and it's been my experience that good relationships, good matches and love are rare. Too many settle for OK or loneliness. Don't. If you find someone who is worth it fight for it. hugs and good luck 😘😘😘

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