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Hey ghosts in my machine! I promise not to spam post but I made a body progress college I wanted to share with you all. It's from the day I finally decided I was tired of how I was presenting and needed a change from around 8 years ago. It took my first weight loss transition to reach my goal and realize I still hated my mirror to finally be absolutely certain I was trans. It took another 7 years after that to know I couldn't just let it go.

It's been a worn tooth and nail journey, and I'm not where I want yet, but when I see myself now, I finally see me. I hope the same for you.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Damn, goals!

I never know weather this question is rude (baby trans here) so feel free to tell me to get lost.

Did you have facial surgery or is this from hrt only?

[โ€“] RIPandTERROR 7 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I don't personally feel it's rude? The subject matter is my medical transition progress and I think the question is relevant.

No surgery. I'm way too poor. Just the stereotypical autism-baby-face with a bit of hrt luck and smiling helps me a lot. Cheeks aren't fully there when I got RBF going.

I try to smile a lot to compensate ๐Ÿ˜…

My regime is oral estradiol, Spironolactone and progesterone (since month 6).

On the I hit 9 months hrt early this month.

Current resting face

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Autism baby face? That explains so, so much. I didn't know that was a thing, but several of my trans friends are on the spectrum and all of them have very soft, youthful faces.

[โ€“] RIPandTERROR 5 points 1 month ago

Yup. It's a thing.

Been told by a few people there may be something to autism being tied to how our connective tissue develops and forms. I'm not a bioscience girl tho. I just plug people's power cords into the wall and pretend I'm smart when they praise me for fixing their computer.

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