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Hey ghosts in my machine! I promise not to spam post but I made a body progress college I wanted to share with you all. It's from the day I finally decided I was tired of how I was presenting and needed a change from around 8 years ago. It took my first weight loss transition to reach my goal and realize I still hated my mirror to finally be absolutely certain I was trans. It took another 7 years after that to know I couldn't just let it go.

It's been a worn tooth and nail journey, and I'm not where I want yet, but when I see myself now, I finally see me. I hope the same for you.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago (4 children)

You're practically glowing, honestly.. And I love your style!

[โ€“] RIPandTERROR 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm extremely picky on style ๐Ÿ˜…

I don't have much money at all, and I'm pretty much on my own so I only buy stuff I'd like to wear at work AND at home.

Obviously aside from a few items ๐Ÿ˜…

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Well you're nailing it.

That top (?) is fab, it reminds me a lot of a shirt-dress I had years ago that I really loved. It too was a cheapo find, from primark lol and also good for any occasion depending how you dress it, I love finds like that! Versatility ftw..

Obviously aside from a few items ๐Ÿ˜…

Good call ๐Ÿ˜‚

[โ€“] RIPandTERROR 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It's a dress actually! My second one I've ever bought, and it was like $25 on clearance. I'm trying to figure out full body selfies but I haven't really found a way to not feel goofy in those shots. Need a selfie stick maybe.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Oh cool, and definitely a bargain!

I avoid being documented at all costs, so I can relate to feeling goofy, and can offer no advice whatsoever lol

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