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[–] SuddenDownpour 85 points 6 months ago (7 children)

Explicit meaning gang.

All my homies hate the astral hidden meaning shenanigans gang.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (3 children)

I still have difficulty accepting this concept from time to time. It’s a real relationship issue, I’m talking in the bedroom. I’m trying to be a gentleman and my wife is telling me please just be straightforward and boring. Be literal. Do not be suggestive. Do not imply. I don’t want to imagine I don’t want creativity. Now, every relationship is different, but I can’t help but feel it unceremonious when she uses the example of ordering at a drive-through as her ideal vision for how the evening should go.

Makes me a bit paranoid but does genuinely seem to be what makes her happy in our case.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)
[–] activ8r 1 points 6 months ago

Which, funny enough, is exactly what she doesn't want to do 😄

Given how she wants direct and straight forward communication, he should probably ask her instead of making any inference in this case.

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