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I don't think people on this sub use it, but it's great news for us. The worse it gets the likelier people move on.

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[–] [email protected] 175 points 4 months ago (8 children)

Looks like Discord will do a Reddit in the near future.

I recommend switching to Matrix.

[–] [email protected] 124 points 4 months ago (3 children)

the problem isn't switching, the problem is making all the other people using It to switch too, not everyone cares about security or ads

[–] [email protected] 48 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (6 children)

There's also privacy issues with Matrix:

  • Account deletion on Discord: username becomes [deleted]
  • Account deletion on Matrix: will not delete username
  • GDPR-compliant account deletion on Matrix: will not delete username

Discord is also one (admittedly very lousy) company, while Matrix starts with the privacy issues and just gets worse

Edit x2: I can't place a parenthesis to save my life

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Yep most of the communities I like are on Discord nothing I can't do.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 months ago

most of the communities period are on discord

even the one that really have no business being in there and really should be on a forum

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

One of the interesting features about Matrix is that it supports some degree of interoperability. The Beeper phone app, for all the fuss about its ill-fated attempts to bridge to iMessage, can connect to Discord for basic no-frills text chat.

I refuse to install Discord on my phone but use Beeper for DMs and group texting.

[–] rambling_lunatic 2 points 4 months ago

I have happily succeeded. While there are some communities that are still on Discord, the vast majority of my friends are accessible on Matrix.

[–] [email protected] 68 points 4 months ago (8 children)

I hate this recommendation because Matrix is just a terrible user experience. It has basically nothing of value over Discord other than being open source. Which is important but it's not enough to counteract the amount of basic quality of life stuff that is just absolutely trash garbage on Matrix. Stuff that no normal user is going to put up with.

If Discord does end up completely eviscerating itself the replacement will just be some new upstart closed Source program that is shiny just like how Discord took over from Slack it will not be the rise of Open Source because open source developers have no concept of user experience.

I mean we don't even need to start talking about how bad all the client options are and how half the features don't work and all that. You can look no further than the login system. Average users do not like want or accept having multiple options for logging in. There's a reason that irc, teamspeak, mumble despite in many ways being objectively Superior especially in the case of the voice chats ended up relegated to only nerds like us. Because no one else is willing to deal with keeping track of servers to connect with or how to cross join or add users.

Same reason that Lemmy is like 90% technical users that are already invested in something like Linux. The average user got frustrated by how fragmented everything is how many duplicate channels and content you would find between instances and how difficult it was to search instances in the first place. I am here because I can ultimately work around those emoians, but the average person? Is not willing to and they shouldn't have to

[–] [email protected] 25 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I'd love to be able to disagree in any of your points, but I can't.

The vast majority of users want something that simply works, is polished and intuitively usable. Reading docs, remembering anything other than the bare minimum, running into issues that don't get magically resolved within 5 minutes will turn them away forever.

Even people with a technical background will at least partially compromise and migrate towards the services with the most users to not isolate themselfs.

Matrix is neat, Lemmy is neat, Nextcloud is neat (well, in theory), Immich is neat, so many other privacy friendly solutions are neat. But they'll always be irrelevant in the global context.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I mean with next cloud and immich it doesn't really matter if they are popular. Those are services that you host for yourself for you to use generally by yourself.

Immich I could see someone using if they're already familiar with Google photos, so long as someone else handled the setup and maintenance of it of course

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago

Selfhosted services like Nextcloud/Immich aren't nearly as dependent on a critical user mass like Discord/Matrix, but the principle is the same.

If you host for family or friends, they may even use it if you convince them to switch. But when the setup, which doesn't consist of redundant instances and isn't maintained by a small army of SysAdmins 24/7, inevitably breaks for longer than a few minutes, most will switch back to the easy, reliable option.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I am a big fan of Matrix and glad to see it getting some attention in this post. But it is definitely a bit rougher around the edges and esoteric compared to Discord. For more technically-inclined people, it's fine. But it's a bit much for some people.

I'm no fan of Apple (and don't want to divert discussion here), but part of their winning formula is ease of use.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago (9 children)

It's not even just the technical barriers. Lemmy has technical barriers and still works fine. Matrix is soooooo fucking SSSSSSLLLLLLOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWW. A simple chat program that takes longer to load a channel than it takes for my aging PC to boot an AAA game is simply unusable. This is 2024, not 1994.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago

I hate this recommendation because Matrix is just a terrible user experience.

Heck agree. In my experience, IRC is a much better alternative.

[–] mnemonicmonkeys 9 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Someone else mentioned Revolt.chat higher in the thread and it seems to be a promising FOSS replacement for Discord. It's looking to fix some of Matrix's issues like not having voice channels (voice calls on Matrix aren't the same)

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

some new upstart closed Source program that is shiny just like how Discord took over from Slack

Guilded already exists. It's a Discord clone with more features, but no one uses it. I assume they are just waiting for Discord to fail one day.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

It's because is owned by Roblox.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

I didn't look into it much other than trying it out for 15 min. Good to know lol.

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 months ago (1 children)

With how much they been cash grabbing, I'm not surprised.

If only I could convince 30 people I barely know to switch platforms.

[–] mnemonicmonkeys 3 points 4 months ago

The Discord server I spend the most time on is constantly looking for alternatives in case something better pops up or we need a backup.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

I’m constantly looking for something that could replace discord for me, I need something like the discord screen/game streaming to consider changing apps.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

I need something like the discord screen/gama streaming to consider changing apps.

I second this. It’s one of our most used features. Whether it’s streaming for team mates or for spectators there’s almost always 1 to 2 people streaming/watching.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago (4 children)

Same. Matrix works like a charm.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Don't get me wrong, I love matrix, but works like a charm is not how I would describe that. Element Just seems to make everything harder because you have to keep track of your session keys. That way if you have a new device and can't use the previous device you don't get locked out And then to top it off you have the export and import of end to end encrypted room keys which even for somebody like myself who is technical enough to manage it has managed to screw it up almost every time. I find something like session or SimpleX easier because you're not having to manage keys like that. SimpleX has an actual database file export instead of key management and you need only remember the decryption key. Session of course uses session IDs with a neumonic seed phrase like crypto

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Interesting concept! Element isnt my favorite client either but it has nothing to do with running or using matrix. Its like using an iphone and saying calling someone is very expensive.

The keys situation needs work though.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I havent found another client that really improves the situation though.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I use fluffychat daily and it works well. The issue atm is that frequently changing devices, leaving and joining a lot of rooms can disrupt the experience. If you talk mostly on the same devices and in the same rooms there is no issue as far as I can tell.

As all FOSS software it needs work and people who want to put in that work. I wont help with element and synapse since the element folks want contributors to sign away their rights which I‘m not okay with.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (5 children)

Oh, I don't blame you for that. I just feel like Matrix in general is rather complicated for normal people. I like simple x a lot because all the keys are just in a database and the database is encrypted instead of having to remember the keys and session obviously only needs the mnemonic seed for restoration. Like, I can manage a cryptocurrency wallet absolutely fine, but there are a number of different times that I have lost access to encrypted chats on Matrix due to not getting the key situation right.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

You can just restore with your recovery key

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago (2 children)

If the server holds your room keys encrypted by your restore key, sure. But thats still a 3rd party holding your keys.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I will gladly leave this shithole called discord, as soon as matrix start to support screen sharing

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I actually havent tried if screensharing works but jitsi seems to work very well in there. Even the german government uses it so I suppose it might be able to do that.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I know for a fact you can screen share in jitsi as I have seen it done.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

In that case it should be no problem in matrix, assuming it uses a full version of jitsi.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

There's a huge difference between streaming games and streaming PowerPoint slideshows

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Obviously, yes. Whats your point?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

Telling Discord users to switch to Matrix because "it works like a charm" is incorrect, considering how Discord is used.

"It's tolerable if you can put up with the low bit rate and high latency" is more accurate.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

I frequently use Jitsi w/screensharing. Been using it for quite a while this way with good results.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

They already have

Pre IPO allocations were available two years ago.

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