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[–] [email protected] 111 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I have been with wife almost thirty years. I wish it had occurred to me to ask this so many times before saying something. So many times.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I ask my wife and kids if they need someone to help problem solve or just listen. It's been a game changer.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 years ago (1 children)

“Is this the feeling stage” to me feels like, “are you ready to here solutions or are you going to keep complaining?”.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The idea is sound but the wording needs work.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

There's no ordering to the ways it's worded. It doesn't say "ready for solutions yet?" Or "are you still having feelings".