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My old person trait is that I think 'ghosting' is completely unacceptable and you owe the other person a face-to-face conversation.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I kinda agree with you op on ghosting being unacceptable, but NOBODY is entitled to see my face NO ONE. It is not ghosting to straight up tell someone "I am no longer interested in continuing to stay in contact with you."

Likewise, my old person trait is the belief that your identity and all details pertaining to it are PERSONAL including voice, likeness, biometric statistics, location, interests - basically, the default human presence online is TEXT ONLY AND NO DESCRIPTION OF ANYTHING CONCRETE until and unless they choose to intentionally disclose more, and nobody, not one mother FUCKING person OR THING has the right to demand of you any more than that. Lastly, that you should guard your information greedily and viciously.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I think I should be allowed to order food from a restaurant without needing to scan a QR code which requires me to have a smart phone and an active, paid plan in order to access their menu.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

My OPT is that you should be able to buy and own your software instead of perpetually renting it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My old person trait is when someone tells me what they mean, they better damn well be telling me what they mean, because I'm not gonna play mind games with them. If you tell me you're not upset then I'll believe you're not upset, I'm honouring you and your words and trusting that you're being upfront and honest with what you want me to know. And if you secretly are upset, it's not my responsibility to know that, you did not tell me.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have adapted this policy. With a bunch of trying to understand why this person is acting a certain way.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Personally I'm not great at reading people and I've found they get even more frustrated when you get it wrong than when you just don't do it. After a certain point I found myself miserable and I kinda stopped and went "wait, why is it MY job to know what THEY want from me?" And I eventually just kinda. Stopped. Most people hardly noticed because I got it wrong or overlooked it so much anyway but it was tons less stress on me, and now they knew how to effectively interact with me

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

My old person trait is I think people should remove their headphones when interacting with each other IRL

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Mine is that a cellphone should be a phone first, instead of being a shitty computer first and a celllphone as a distant afterthought.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This might be the only actual old person trait in this thread (OP included). The rest is basically just “I don’t want to be fucked over.”

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

It goes along with how they've stopped calling it a user interface and started calling it a user experience. Interface implies the computer is a tool that you use to do things, while experience implies that the things you can do are ready made according to, basically, usage scripts that were mapped out by designers and programmers.

No sane person would talk about a user's experience with a socket wrench, and that's how you know socket wrenches are still useful.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

My old person trait is that I think kids today are underinformed and overopinionated, especially when it causes them to hold opinions with which I disagree. All other times the kids are alright.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

My old person trait is that a digital file I paid for should be DRM free.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

My old person trait is that I want to not be milked for data

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I prefer to talk to individuals on phones rather than texting a long conversation. If it's a quick question (yes/no) or short answer texting is ok. But I find it taking longer and more tedious to text out an ongoing conversation over 20 minutes versus just calling and getting straight to the point and getting the information you need in 5 minutes.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I like having a keyboard and mouse. Doing things on a smartphone is a last resort.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah that line was used by my abusers way to often. They just "can't understand" why I'd go no contact. As if the last 300 explanations were somehow non existent. Nope. I don't owe you anything.

And my old person trait is my walking stick I suppose.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I don't understand TikTok... at all. Like, what's even the point as a user?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

TikTok is a lot of fun if you give the algorithm a mintue to figure you out. I haven't seen any dancing videos, I have never watched the demilios or whatever, it is a pretty different experience depending on what you like. It is mostly golf tips, sports highlights, crafts and funny stuff for me.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It wastes time, some people don't have anything better to do with their lives.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

My old person trait is you should be able to order a "coffee", small, medium or large at Starbucks, without having to learn a new language.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

An urge to destroy fascism.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My old person trait is that often prefer phonecalls over text messages.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I'm okay with instant messaging, but similar feeling.

Give me a full keyboard or give me death. I fucking hate typing on the chiclets of a virtual keyboard.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My fucking back hurts. Knee joints as well. And I think socializing is overrated.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't use my phone to pay at the POS and I refuse to do so. I will always carry around my card and use that.

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