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can't speak much now, site is in five-alarm fire mode for obvious reasons. things are going good though, thank you for using the site, hopefully this week will chill a bit

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Overall good but the nice weather is tanking my work motivation.. I'd rather be outside in the woods than in front of a computer tbh, but what can you do?

Keeping up with Lemmy/Beehaw is fun! I'm definitely posting more frequently than I ever did on reddit tbh.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I can relate to that, there is an entrance to a small patch of woodland that I can see from my office window. I often wish I could just leave and go for a stroll through it when the weather is good.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I admit I haven't spent as much time in the woods in my life so far as I would've liked, but I've heard it's really good for the human psyche to spend time deep in nature.

Definitely couldn't agree more - Beehaw is so much more friendly and engaging than Reddit ever was for me. I don't know which aspect of the platform does it most for me, but I feel way more inclined to comment and post when I can trust that I'm not going to get ripped to shreds in the replies.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Give it a shot if you've got any forests close by, it really is nice!

Yeah, focusing on a small(ish) population of people who actually agreed to be nice to each other helps a bunch too!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Had to put down a 21 year old cat, spent $1700 at the mechanic on my car, and a power surge killed my elliptical's electronics. I've had better weeks.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sorry about all that, I feel you. I had to put down my 20 year old cat a couple weeks ago and learned my dad has cancer the day before that. This week I spent a ton of money to update our home electricals and then just learned the washer is now broken. Stay strong and hang in there and we'll get through all this!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

One day at a time. I've got good games and people who love me, I'll be fine.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I had a cat that lived to be 21, too. My sympathies; I remember how hard it was to lose him.

Whenever one of my cats has died, I always end up thinking of a passage from May Sarton's The Fur Person:

"They did not love him for his glossy tiger coat, nor his white shirt front and white paws, nor his great green eyes, no, not even for the white tip to his tail. They loved him because he was himself."

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I got my laptop back from the repair shop. They said I really needed to replace the internal keyboard and touchpad components, but I just disabled them and stuck on an external keyboard and mouse.

Then I played Sims 4 for about four hours. Fun!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I just started painting and drawing again and couldn't be happier with it - I use it to meditate after a long day at work and usually just before heading off to bed! Hope you all are doing great!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

A bit better than usual lately, which is nice. Getting some PR photos today to finally get my IDs updated since my name change certificate arrived! I will finally be rid of my dead name!

Also started working on my first leather working project this week. While it's rough and I'm missing a couple of tools to finish it well, I'm happy to be learning a new skill.

All in all, a good week, which is a nice change of pace.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Pretty good!

I dusted off my Beehaw account from when I left Twitter and I'm having lots of fun talking to you all in comparison to a lot of sites. I installed Linux and I'm enjoying playing with all the neat new software. Currently tinkering with templates in Zim Wiki while I wait for my potatoes to cook. I also got introduced to a few low-end games I never would've known about normally and I definitely plan on trying some out.

I was wondering if the site was being buggy haha. Saw that my comments took a while to post and had to refresh.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Yeah, some of my upvotes (is that what they're called here?) aren't registering and I'm having to click multiple times to get it to stick. I think it's just the huge increase in load from Reddit going dark. Things should smooth out over the next week or two. So far I'm loving the smaller community, I've only seen one terrible troll and it was actually OP here that already banned them in another thread. They came from another instance.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I just flunked out of what I thought was going to be my career (physics) I'm not sure if this is the correct term but I failed at my bachelor's? I'm thinking of doing an engineering degree instead.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You failed at doing what you weren't meant to do. You succeeded in moving in the right direction. You got this

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thanks my friend, not gonna lie I actually cried, I thought I had it I studied hard for the final exam but it still wasn't enough. Whatever it is I enter next I'll make sure to change my studying habits.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

No worries! And good luck

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

In future you may look back and see this as an important turning point in your life that you’d never want to change.

I switched out from my original degree and went into an entirely different field and if it wasn’t for that I wouldn’t have anything like the life I’ve got now.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

got a lot going on, an important job interview, studying, trying to help a friend going through a tough time. l

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh it's going great ! Finally getting some quiet weather that allows me to go offshore, i work on wind farms. It's nice to get out of the office, it's too toxic and political there, i like working out in field with the technicians waaaay more. Oh and the sunsets on a blue sky day, nothing beats it.

[–] kersploosh 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Man, your job sounds awesome. Have a nice time out on the water!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Thanks dude and how is your week going, i hope it's awesome ?

Here is a picture of my trip home tonight, it was a lovely sunset.

[–] kersploosh 1 points 1 year ago

My week is good so far, thanks for asking. I hope you have an awesome week, too!

I love your picture! I haven't been to the sea in years, and I miss it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I did not know offshore wind farms even existed! This is epic and so are you.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Aww thanks mate. You aswell.

They are pretty marvelous, can't wait for the US to join this race, would love to work on one other there. Actually they are just in the process of two huge ones, one off the coast of somewhere in California called vineyard park and one off the coast of Virginia, can't remember the name. Hope you're having an awesome week.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Little stressed out. Pregnant wife just tested positive for COVID, I'm in the clear so far and my daughter seems to be, too. Gotta head to the store to get some more tests though, but we're pretty strapped for cash until tomorrow. I've been in the dumps lately but actually today I'm feeling pretty good all things considered. Weird how that goes!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

good luck with the site and thanks for your work!

personally just wish I could actually breathe through my nose again but otherwise pretty good tbqh

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Just working and waiting for a mastodon invite to get approved. I'm sure they're busy lol.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Someone correct me if I'm wrong but shouldn't you be able to interact with Mastodon using your Beehaw account?

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I'm really not sure how it all works still but from what I've read here I think that's the idea with the fediverse. Someone compared it to email. Even if you have a Gmail account you can interact with someone who has a yahoo account and vice versa.

In practice though, I've no idea how it works so I'm hoping some kind user here will point us in the right direction!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Everything was all set for a great day. It's me and my partner's anniversary, plus we were invited to a cocktail thing overlooking a tall ships festival to watch the fireworks tonight... Then I woke up with a wonder cold! Awesome. Babysitter cancelled. No fireworks. No cocktail. But I did play some video games and didn't have to go to work which I guess is pretty nice.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Not fantastic tbh. Ran into a rather jarring trigger of my biggest phobia at work today and am still feeling a bit shaky. Hopefully will be a bit more stable for the rest of the day.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Going good! Started putting together a little digital garden to keep some of my favorite saved posts from reddit before deleting my account.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This digital garden is intriguing. Is that essay your own or are you just sharing the concept. It looks super interesting.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Not my essay! It's just the best summary I've seen so far. My garden is still under construction, but I might share it here when it's done.

Edit: if you're interested in the specifics of how to make one easily, I'm using Obsidian, a great free notetaking app with a paid Publish feature (there's a student discount on Publish too, so that's a plus). There are some guides on making one there, like this one.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Okay that's cool.

Hmm I'm using Logseq already as I wanted something open source. I'll read into this when I have some more time as I'm already in the habit of collecting lots of links and resources.

Super happy I stumbled on this.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Been suuuuuper busy with a move. The worst of it should be done today, though.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

@alyaza Just getting started of course, but going alright so far. Been busy trying to make sense of some programming, to try to bend it to my own application. I’m not really a developer, but hopefully I’ll figure this bit out.

Hope all is going well with Beehaw

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Things are good! Workload got lightened a lot so I have time to catch up of stuff around the house and work on some projects I've had on hold. The weather's also getting to the point I like here. I live for rainy afternoons.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I'm hoping this week gets better than last! Last week the DC area had some of the wildfire smoke crawl in making it annoying to do anything. This weekend was nice since it cleared up substantially where I am.

My current project is to redo my desk so that my butcher block desk gets a nice new stain and becomes a standing desk.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

This is kind of a filler week for me. I’ve got a couple of days in the middle of the week off but I’m powering through working the whole weekend. It’s gonna be 40 hours in 3 days, so that will be killer. But next week is looking wide open. Running group, camping trip with some daytime hiking, and a tabletop gaming night (tbd if it’s OnePageRules or Marvel Crisis Protocol). So that’s looking up. At some point I’ve got to finish a commission of painted miniatures which is a minor headache as the customer is simultaneously asking me for improved paintjobs compared to his stuff but he is also extremely insistent my stuff color matches and is indistinguishable from his stuff. Two conflicting priorities. Hopefully he’s happy and I can put him on the “do not take jobs from again” list.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Just getting started, but I'll be starting my holiday in Lanzarote on Sunday. I'm looking forwards to it of course!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I'm so exhausted from last week, just finally recovering from a sickness that felt endless. But I'm starting off this week with a lot of 'spring cleaning,' and I'm going to treat myself later to a nice meal if all goes well. Really enjoying the switch from Dendron to Logseq for my personal knowledge management system.

Hang in there! Y'all have done a great job with the site so far, and hopefully everything will calm down soon. 💛

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