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If anyone can find more pixels for me i would appreciate it.

Thanks y'all.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Y'all reminds me of the bible belt. I'm not transgender but I am queer and now and then it makes me uncomfortable.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Guess I'll have to ask the person I'm addressing in the future.

Thanks comrade.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Y'all = you all, which is gender neutral.

Also that map is missing the Chicagoland y'all exclave.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Second person never has a gender in English. Saying "you" should also be fine, or "thee" if you feel like getting your quaker on.

Special requests notwithstanding - the platinum rule here is just to accommodate whatever you reasonably can.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

People who don't even live in the USA saying "y'all" is pure pain

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I say "all of y'all" and make a point to really emphasize the "'".

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

I'll throw in "folks" as another gender neutral option. I say "you folks" all the time, especially in professional contexts. I'm not from the South, but I have family there so y'all is a part of my vocabulary. I use it in more informal situations pretty commonly.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

We are afraid to use common greetings now? How about we all refer to each other as "carbon units"?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

We need a better second person plural in English. Y'all works but its a big language gap

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've heard people say "yous" before.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Having exported myself from the deep South to Yankee land, "Y'all have a good one!" never fails to brighten the day of someone working a cash register.

In general, folks up here really like southern politeness. They think sugar wouldn't melt in my mouth. I get stopped in stores to talk all the time. Pretty frequently, they just give me a discount. I thought Yankees were supposed to be rude, but they're actually really nice in public.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Can "y'all" be singular, since there is "all y'all" for plural?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

When talking about a group but only one individual of the group is present you can still use y'all.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

ITT: Yinzers

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Trust me there are many more areas that say y'all

[–] beastlykings 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Am I the only one who actually looked for more pixels for this guy?

Anywho, here you go my guy:

Edit: hmmm, Lemmy seems to be compressing it. Here's a link.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

I bought a shirt once in Pittsburgh that says, “Yinz is a gender-neutral p pronoun”

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Only if you man in it a "you people" kind of way - like y'all need to stay with your own kind- or something like that.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

There are pride buttons that say Y'all means all.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Is guys really needed after youse?

The guys is needed where there's no 2.pl pronoun to distinguish from individual you, but youse fixes that

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Fwiw, second person is fine as long as there's no misgendering... It's like calling someone by their name

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Maine I think loops back around to y’all territory…

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I’m on the border of y’all and you guys

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Your comment gives me the urge to create other maps you can comment on so that I can triangulate your position.

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