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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Eh. I have thing going on that I'm looking forward to, trying to keep my head up with things, but right now there's this issue that's putting a shadow over everything.

I try to talk to the person involved, but they've kept at it to this point where I don't want to be around them. I've tried to be gentle about it, but it's like everything I said gets forgotten in a week and I'm the bad person for putting my foot down after.

I think it feels worse because I know what I need to do, but it's going to make a lot of things very difficult, and it's going to take accepting that someone who was very important in my life isn't the person I knew when we reached that point. That neither of us are.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

With my hands silly.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

To quote an indecisive mollusk: "Everything is going just as planned!"

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Nice , good luck

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

exhausted. physically and mentally. even if i manage to disconnect its never for long enough to recouperate fully

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I hope you get better soon

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

thx. same to you

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I feel terrible because I didn't buy even a card for my wife's birthday. I just took her to her mother's house. This was two weeks ago. I am still baffled why I didn't buy flowers or something. My wife isn't demanding at all.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

It's never too late, go ahead and do something because regretting won't help...

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago
[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

i just want to fucking die die die die die die die die die die die FUCKING DIE ALREADYYYYHSHSUDJEJJSJDKF

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I failed college, which lead to me losing my job. I also lost my car. To top it all off, my girlfriend of 3 years left me while we were 10,000km away from home. Every single thing reminds me of her. I haven't had the strength to shower in a week. I wish I had a car so i can drive into a concrete block at 200km/h and obliterate my worthless body. I love her so much.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

It does get better, and one day you'll look back and be glad that it turned out the way it did, just keep going โค๏ธ

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