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ngl I may prefer lemm.ee, just saying

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[โ€“] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago (4 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It's not a cult, I swear! :D

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

db0 , i really like your server tbh but my monyet.cc is serving me currently well the fact that you have a photon , tensorrect etc as alternate frontends is kinda cool as well :p thanks man , we as a community appreciate your instance and its c/piracy -fellow pirate

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[โ€“] [email protected] 14 points 11 months ago (1 children)

"I prefer the one I'm posting from." - every single response

[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago (4 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago

Was waiting for an instance admin lol

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

He's right. No bias, I swear.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

I dunno why but everytime I see that, I misread it as SoPopular ;)

[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Lemmy.world for me.

It's generic, has a good list of communities, and the mods are legends with updates and transparency.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

I personally prefer using Lemm.ee, mostly because it's the instance I started off with, but the problem with that instance is that it's dry lol

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Hexbear hexbear-logo The best community on the internet

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Some really good artists at Hexbear too

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

o7 we love our big red mad comrades

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (3 children)

lemmy.sdf.org when it works; federation there is kinda fucked right now, so ~~I'm on lemmy.today for now.~~ I accidentally posted it from SDF. Comment if you can see this.

SDF has an extensive track record (* much longer than I have been alive*) of providing systems for the public good. If federation gets fixed (and it probably will eventually), I'll be back on SDF.

Additionally, I generally don't want the set of people I can connect with to be technically limited, like at all. Yes that includes "all the bad people" according to your (and my) individual worldview. If they're going to exist, I would prefer to have advanced notice of the danger they pose. If you suck, I will block you.

I'm not against moderated or curated instances, and for most people that is probably the way to go, but it's not what I personally need. Yes, this means that I occasionally get wild shit when I choose to scroll through All. Yes, that means I get various shades of genocide apologists and weird bigots, again when I choose not to browse by Local or Subscribed. That's why I'm subscribed to a bunch of cool, moderated communities. I choose the content I see.

That is the approach I prefer for myself. Again, I understand that it's not for everyone.

As far as instances where I'm not (yet) a member, lemmy.dbzer0.com is my favorite by far. Also while I don't have any communities on their instance, the startrek.website people seem to always have something interesting to say.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Is it weird to not have a favorite?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago

As an American I prefer lemmy.ca

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

lemmy.ohaa.xyz, cause its mine :D

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

now THATS the spirit!

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Lemm.ee. I like the defederation policy, and in my experience the community and its admins have always been very responsive.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago

lemm.ee fans RISE UP!!!

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

I like mine because it is mine :)

[โ€“] ganoo 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Lemmy.ca and sh.itjust.works

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

sh.itjust.works is the best name for a instance

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (2 children)

mander.xyz is my favorite. Love and subscribed to the most of the communities it have.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

Lemm.ee seems pretty okay.

I don't care much about instances though, I just use Lemmy like it's Reddit and scroll through the home page and my subscriptions

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

hexbear and lemmygrad are fantastic. makes me feel very welcome and safe as a queer person (i am bisexual) that the admins will always crack down on queerphobia in any form. very cool for our trans comrades as well! lemmy.ml is a close third place, many cool ppl on there especially comrade dessalines.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

lemmy.blahaj.zone because im biased

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[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

My main is reddthat.com

Clear and open admins; smaller instance with room to grow; it's my personal favorite

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (2 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

I like .world abit, but I'm a touch biased ๐Ÿคฃ

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

Dbzer0 yeah. It have served well without any downtime for me. Also piracy friendly. Startrek.website people seems chill

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Every instance is good because every instance can interact with many other instances with comments, posts etc. So you arent really locked into one instance. its the magic of federation.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

I'd be very careful with those words given that lemmy.world is rather trigger happy with defederations.

It is almost impossible to completely censor away content and anyone can bridge blocks by creating a new intermediary instance where they can view content of mutually blocked instances but it's not like you see all the fediverse content on any instance.

Matter of fact you just need to look at the blocklists of most instances to get a pretty good guess at the other, less legal, Fediverse out there running almost in parallel to the popular one. But since almost every instance has those blocked you don't see any of that shit in your feeds. Highly censorship resistant, but ultimately an individual is still at the mercy of their instance admins.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Is it possible to switch instances? I wanna explore and I just randomly picked one when I started

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Youโ€™ve just got to make a new account on a different instance. Several of the apps make it easy to switch between multiple accounts on different instances.

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