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Cool idea but human beings crave identity. And gender is an important way to express identity. I think that might be one of the reasons why some people feel so threatened by the existence of non-cis gendered people. Refusing to conform to preconceived notions of identity-by-gender challenges their sense-making processes, inducing anxiety.
Plus, our entire human race is reliant on the attraction between the sexes. Gender isn't easily extricable from that. A manly man will always have an easier time finding a woman.
I like the spirit of human first but I fear it might not be as simple as that.
i agree that society constructed gender roles are convenient and comfortable for the intellectually lazy. my point is that its unnecessary and causes much suffering. the 8+ billion humans will still find a way to make children, no matter which bathrooms you force people to use.
if you want to find a partner who likes you the way you are, though, having a comfortable gender identity is an important step