Antiwork
Date Created: June 21, 2023
This community supports labor, with an aspiration for it to cease to be required to live our lives. Members of this community want to end work, are curious about ending work, want to get the most out of a work-free life, want more information on anti-work ideas and/or want personal help with their own jobs/work-related struggles.
Anti-Work Library 📚
Essential Reads
Start here! Some of the more talked-about essays on the topic.
- The Abolition of Work by Bob Black (1985) | listen
- On the Phenomenon of Bullshit Jobs by David Graeber (2013) | listen
- In Praise of Idleness by Bertrand Russell (1932) | listen
c/Antiwork Rules
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1. Server Main Rules
The main rules of the server will be enforced stringently. https://lemmy.world/
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Yeah, this is way too complex for social media. You need an estate lawyer, yesterday.
Just beware of one thing. Depending on where you live, you aren't responsible for your parents' debts. So don't make promises to anyone to pay them, don't sign anything, don't verbally agree to anything, period.
If you plan on trying to help manage the household, you taking on the debt is going to make it a shit ton harder. You already have little or no credit at your age, your siblings probably don't either. Having massive debt, and the eventual credit ruination added into that, you're fucked. Your mom declaring bankruptcy isn't a pleasant thing, but as long as the rest of you aren't on the hook for it, that's the end of it. You and/or your siblings will be able to handle getting utilities, housing, etc in your names if/when you have to move. If y'all have that debt moved onto you, that may not be possible.
So agree to nothing. Don't agree to pay medical bills, don't agree to pay anything. I'm not saying you can't pay them, you can. But don't enter into any agreement with anyone to do so. Either just pay it, or give your mom the funds and let her.
It doesn't matter who calls you, what they say, most places in the world, they can't force a child to pay a parent's debts. You would have to agree to it. Let them go after the estate, period.
Also, let's be real for a second. You aren't solely responsible here. Your mom is an adult, and as your siblings ages shift to where they can help (if they aren't already adults), it isn't all on your shoulders. Women are perfectly capable of contributing to their own household financially and practically. Not sure where you are, there may be cultural or legal reasons that change exactly how much and what type of help they can be, but it's never zero.
Be a mutual support network. Don't take it all on your shoulders, spread the weight around so that nobody breaks under it.
But first and foremost, talk to an estate specialist.