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Iโve seen you struggling with existential questions a lot here. Are you going to therapy?
There are so many people who deserve it more, now why would I block them from receiving help, so I could be an even bigger burdensome waste of resources? Bruh, come on. My mother literally took food from a food bank that she didn't need, made each family member (except me because I'd escape) do it and take 4 times the amount alotted to each household, to just NOT use. Literally wasting resources that someone in need could use. Why would I do that myself?
I'm just saying if your life was ruined at the start then it's ruined forever, either continue living a ruined life or give up.
You sure you don't need that therapy more? That sounds exactly like someone who could use a therapy.
That's simply not true as proven countless times.
Maybe therapy can't help you. Statistically speaking, it most likely can. If you try and don't succeed, you can at least tell yourself you tried.
Yeah so I should take food from a food bank because I don't feel like paying for it, and that's completely fair to the homeless people. And I tried for my whole life to cut ties and I'm still stuck. Everyone else got to be kids during childhood, and I was trying to make money online to hopefully move out at 16 or 18. Still never got out.
No, you shouldn't do it because you don't feel like paying, I never said that. But if it would help you move out from your toxic family, go for it. I'm not just talking out of my ass, I've lived through some shit of my own when I was a kid. Therapy helps and that's from personal experience.