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Not gonna lie yall losing your shit over this post gives me incel vibes
Because if someone says no then that should be it, why should someone be expected to continue pursuing a person after explicit denial?
Totally agree. Why do all these people care so much that one person online is claiming to not get that... Also id bet money an andrew tate type is the real poster lol. So the incel part to me is that all these people have such strong reactions to a nothing burger. Just an excuse to be angry at an imaginary woman.
Like if i posted 2+2=5 id obviously be wrong but it wouldn't be reposted and obessed over like this because incels couldnt use that as an excuse to be angry at a woman. Make sense?
It's the Internet, my first assumption was that it's fake. Even if it's not fake the idea that a specific individual may hold an ignorant opinion doesn't offend me.
That's good lol. I feel like you think I'm talking about you specifically with the incel comment and im not. i just mean look at all the other comments and upvotes from people foaming at the mouth to be upset at a woman theyve never heard of before.
Don't you think that they're giving off incel vibes?
Yeah no I understood, I can tell a lot of people here are probably incels (this is Lemmy). I also don't understand why straight men (specifically incels) hate women so much and yet they crave them so much. It's just something that as an AroAce Transfem I find it hard to comprehend.
Hell yeah stranger glad youre living youre best life 👈😎.
I dont the incel tendencies of most straight dudes either 🤷
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Yeah no I understood, I can tell a lot of people here are probably incels (this is Lemmy). I also don't understand why straight men (specifically incels) hate women so much and yet they crave them so much. It's just something that as an AroAce Transfem I find it hard to comprehend.
Having gone through an incel phase myself when I was younger, It's frustration and insecurity about not being able to get attention from women and then projecting any negative experiences they have or hear about other dudes having onto all women. That's easier than putting themselves out there and trying to form relationships and potentially facing rejection. Then they go online and reinforce each other's beliefs instead of trying to lift themselves up.
I'm very glad I was able to make friends with better people and get myself out of that mindset. Admittedly I'm still single now but I have a lot of female friends that like me as a person, which is nice.